{"id":11555,"date":"2019-02-11T10:03:22","date_gmt":"2019-02-11T04:33:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pillaicenter.com\/blog\/?p=11555"},"modified":"2019-02-11T10:03:22","modified_gmt":"2019-02-11T04:33:22","slug":"loving-too-much-but-not-wisely","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pillaicenter.com\/blog\/loving-too-much-but-not-wisely","title":{"rendered":"Loving Too Much But Not Wisely"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Love Wisely\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8SdSb9TKHwo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;color: #ff6600\"><strong>Loving Too Much, But Not Wisely<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen Othello was asked how his life should be portrayed to future generations, he said: &#8216;<em>Nothing should be sugar-coated; it should be presented as it was.<\/em>&#8216; He was referring to his behaviour towards Desdemona, the love of his life.<\/p>\n<p>Othello was a man who loved too much, but not wisely.<\/p>\n<p>This is something to which most of us can relate. We love too much but not wisely. You have to love wisely \u2014 that is the bottom line.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;color: #ff6600\"><strong>When Love Is Blind<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I will give you an example. I knew an extremely beautiful woman who could take her pick of men. She could marry into money, fame, or social status, but did not have any desire to do so.<\/p>\n<p>She was attracted to people who were quite the opposite, people who would take her to dinner but expect her to pay the bill. This is a classic example of loving too much, but not wisely. \u00a0I said to her &#8216;<em>What are you doing? This is not right. You are choosing the wrong people<\/em>.&#8217; She said: &#8216;<em>I just go by love, not by money, status, or any other criteria. For me, it is important to love someone. And I will love a person even if he doesn\u2019t have money or a good job.&#8217;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>We should all take a closer look at love and decide if it is wise or even love at all. Such things do not cross our minds, but loving wisely is very important.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2013 Dr. Pillai<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600\"><strong>Click the button below to find out how Pillai Center can help you Fix Your Relationships<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href='https:\/\/www.pillaicenter.com\/specials\/fix-your-relationships-program' class='big-button bigblue' target=\"_blank\">Fix Your Relationships<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dr. Pillai talks about relationships and how loving wisely is important.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":11556,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[644,646,829,855,856,936],"class_list":["post-11555","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dr-pillai","tag-love","tag-loving-someone-too-much","tag-othello","tag-pillai","tag-pillai-center","tag-relationships"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v24.8 (Yoast SEO v27.3) - 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