Relationships are the very essence of life. It is relationships that determine the successes and failures in both your personal and professional spheres of life. Yet, relationships can be challenging, painful and in some cases extremely difficult.
Here are a few examples of relationship challenges you may experience: you do not see eye-to-eye with your partner or spouse, you keep thinking of your boss as a slave-driver, your parents never understand you, the sibling rivalry that started at age 6 never really ended, you never found the right someone to share your life with, you have always had the wrong person in your life... the list can continue forever.
The result can be continuous pain, tension, frustration, jealousy, heart ache and sorrow.
If you are wondering if there actually is any hope for challenging relationships, know that the solution starts with you. You cannot change the other person, you can only change yourself. A relationship cannot survive with prejudices and judgements about the other person.
Let the other person do what he/she wants to do. As far as you are concerned, this is what you are going to do: you are going to be open, friendly and you are going to stop judging. Or, even if you judge, you will let go of that judgment in the next moment.
This is an important idea to absorb and consider. As Dr. Pillai puts it, "Every moment is new. Every moment can open a new reality."
Dr. Pillai has designed simple day-to-day practices that help change old, habitual patterns and achieve your desired goals in various aspects of your life. These practices help change thought processes, infuse positivity and create harmony, which in turn reflect in all areas of life.
'Kleem': This sound frequency brings in a host of Divine blessings by chanting the potent seed syllable of the Vedic Archetype Parvati, who blesses relationships. Get a Shiva-Shakti mala, made from rudraksha/crystal beads, and chant KLEEM 108 times a day. It will silently remedy your relationship problems.
<p>Meditating with this mala or wearing it brings in balance and harmony
of the masculine energy of cause and feminine energy of effect.</p>
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In Vedic astrology, the planets are not just celestial objects. Each planet is a celestial being, and the celestial body is only the outer manifestation of the planetary being. Relationship problems are caused, primarily, by two planets:Mars and Venus.
Mars is the pre-eminent problem for fights between partners. Mars represents ego and quarrels. Those of you in conflict with each other might want to propitiate Mars and his planetary god, Muruga. To do this, light a candle (a small tea-candle is fine) in front of their pictures and chant their mantras.
OM MANGALAYA NAMAHA (please check this spelling and pronounciation- is different than what we have used previously)
[Pronounced: OHM MAN-GA-LI-YA NA-MA-HA]
OM SARAVANA BAVAYA NAMAHA
[Pronounced: OHM SA-RA-VA-NA BA-VA-YA NA-MA-HA]
Venus is another planet that rules relationships. Venus particularly creates more romance than sex. Between Mars and Venus, Mars is associated with sex and Venus with romance. Venus energy is very active on Friday. Mars energy is very active on Tuesday.
Passionate love feelings or passionate separation feelings are caused by Venus. The planetary goddess for Venus is Lakshmi. You can propitiate Venus and Lakshmi through the following mantras.
OM SHUKRAYA NAMAHA
[Pronounced: OHM SHUK-RAH-YA NA-MA-HA]
MANTRA: OM SHREEM NAMAHA
[Pronounced: OHM SHREEM NA-MA-HA]
Light a candle before a picture of each deity and chant each mantra 108 times.
Rose quartz, called as the 'Love Stone', is associated with the archetypal being Saraswati. She represents intelligence, higher learning and artistic musical talents- she also promotes love, compassion and forgiveness. The Rose Quartz has a calming influence and helps clear negative, stored emotions such as anger, resentment, jealousy and fear. You may wear it or use it to count recitations of sounds.
<h2>Rose Quartz Mala</h2>
<p>These malas were energized in a Full Moon
Fire Lab to invoke the Archetypal Feminine. The rose quartz