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Dr. Pillai describes how staying in the “Now” benefits not just the mind, but is the key to physical and relationship health.

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Nowizing Relationship

Relationship is everything, whether it is spousal relationship, or relationship with your friends, relatives, or co-workers. It’s the important thing in human life. It is what makes life enjoyable because we are social animals and relationship is very key for a human being.

Now, relationship has become the biggest problem. It’s all because of ego. Ego is really the number one culprit. When you replace ego with love, all relationship will be transformed, and you’ll be in a state of total bliss.

We live in the past, present, and future, and that identity creates a lot of problems. Somebody said something bad about you, and you have some bad thought about another person. You will hold onto that, whether it is a spousal relationship or a relationship between co-workers.

Time has a kind of freezing effect on you. You become frozen in time, and that is not “Now”.

He or she did something against you in the past, and this person is now coming to you to apologize. But as soon as you see that person, you are not in the “Now”. You are not able to welcome that person. The past kicks in: this person insulted me. You become so guarded, and the other person has no way to break through your mental block that you yourself have created.

So, if you have somehow managed to live the relationship based on the principle of ‘Now’, the relationship will be transformed.

Nowizing the Body

The body is responsible for both pain and pleasure. Pain is not acceptable and pleasure is okay. But sense pleasure is not going to be permanent, but at least it is definitely preferable to pain.

How can you stop both pain and pleasure, and get into what is called bliss? As far as the body is concerned, it’s keeping the body in the “Now”’. I call this “Nowization” of the body.

You cannot deal with this gross body as far as “Nowization” is concerned.

I defined “Now” as the Eternal Present beyond time. It is not the present as we understand time in the ordinary use of the word. But it is the “Eternal Present” which has no beginning and no end. That means “no-time” zone.

Which part of the body can be brought to that timeless zone? The minimum body, the DNA level. You have to get to that level first. We are aware of the body, aware of our feet, our hands, our face, our ears, and so forth. But are we really aware of the DNA?

When you get to the level of your DNA (you can even go into the components of DNA, the nucleotides) you are going into a different dimension of time that we are not really aware of.

When you go to the minutest level of your body, and identify yourself with the nucleotides, you are getting closer to the “Now”.

You can do exercises from the Siddha Tradition and from the Yogic Traditions to go into a sleep-like condition with the ability to concentrate. This I call “Nowization” of the body.

God Bless.

– Dr. Pillai

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